2018 Resolutions

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        The new year period is a great time to look back at what I've actually done the past year and what I want to focus on the next one. I already explained how sensitive I am to "fresh starts" and I am really excited for 2018 as 2017 has been my best year so far (in my personal and professional life) and I know that if I focus on the right things, I will accomplish better things and live even more great experiences.

 

 

 

  • K E E P   M Y   M O T I V A T I O N   H I G H

        In 2017 I have been able to do a few things that scared me and start personal and work projects more easily than what I used to. But I have to admit that I haven't been really regular with my work, and I am aware that if I did so I would have done even more projects. This year I want to focus on keeping my motivation high and be as regular as I can with my plans EVERY DAY! That counts for work, personal projects and activities, fitness and health, ... I will create habits from the new year kick start!

  • T A L K   M O R E   O N   C A M E R A

        It may sound superficial that one of my key goal for 2018 includes social media, but it's a little more than that. I used to hate my voice (like many people it was nearly unbearable for me to listen to a record of my voice or watch a talking video of me), and in 2017 I finally had the guts to work on an interview on video thanks to some friends who asked me if I wanted to do it. I realized that my voice isn't that bad (I even had compliments about it haha) and more importantly, I actually loved talking on camera! Our voice is a great tool in a world where we show more and more videos over pictures and where people read less than before (sadly). It was also another step to help me build more confidence -something I have achieved more and more the past few years after realizing that you're not born confident and that you can earn it by proving to yourself that you can do things that scare you/make you feel uncomfortable. So you'll probably hear me talk in my insta stories (saying more or less interesting things but certainly having fun)!

 

 

  • S H O O T   V I D E O S

        This one is a bit connected with my last goal; I want to see what I can do if I start filming a few things that inspire me/amuse me/... and put it all together. Not sure yet if I will share it but it's a nice field to explore as I love doing video shoots in fashion. It allows you to express more than in a still image with the subtlety of movements.

  • T R A V E L   M O R E

        There are a few places that I want to go to but am a little scared to visit. You know what they say about the comfort zone and the magic happening... Since I am lucky enough to have the ability to travel for work, I want to explore the opportunity while I can and go to places that could make me feel uncomfortable but will teach me about other cultures, and I surely don't want to die without visiting them.

  • K E E P   C A L M

        After reading The Highly Sensitive Person (a book by Elaine Aron that I highly recommend if you feel often overwhelmed), I could finally put some words on that feeling of not being "normal" that was always sticking to me. I understood that I was more aroused by many situations because I am highly sensitive and there is nothing wrong with it: like everything, there is a positive and a negative side to it, and it certainly doesn't make me "weaker", on the contrary, because I am more likely to notice subtle things. That said, it's not an excuse to the fact that I sometimes "overreact" and feel angry/hurt during conversations about causes that are important to me. I want to become better at being gentle with people I can share with (I am not talking about the aggressive ones here) so I can have constructive conversations instead of frustrating arguments.

 

        What are your 2018 goals?

 
 

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